January 22, 2012

Early Marriage ?

Okeee, Saya ada terbaca satu entry kat FACEBOOK ;

--"Kalau berkahwin di usia remaja, Syaitan akan menangis"


Wooow ! And I was like... omomomomoooooo !
haha, tapikan mengikut LOGIK bagus jga early marriage nie !
Ya laaa, kalau setakat nak 'COUPLE' jak macam.... sometimes boleh terjebak ke kancah maksiat aite?
Kalau taaak.. tengoklaa zaman sekarang especially kat MALAYSIA, Isu utama yang sudah menjadi 'biasa' ..; ISU ABORTION... ISU PEMBUANGAN BAYI ! mana tak teruknyaa...couple suka suki.. maksiat sana sini... pandai main tapi tak pandai nak cover... perghh ~

Setahu saya, dalam Islam mencegah itu lebih baik daripada mengubati...huhu !
Dan, kan baik kalau 'couples' tuuuu trus kawen jer... cheh ! gattai !! hahahaha lol ~
Okeee ! back on topic! -.-;

Early Marriage :
It's better prevent than cure ~
Tapi, banyak halangan kalau mo kawen awal nhe
Yalaaa... banyak laa alasan situ sini..~
OBVIOUSLY, macam saya... saya suda ada yang punya... *ada kaa saya perluu kawen sekarang??*
Hahah ! see...? okeee in my opinion laaa :

Reasons why I don't want early marriage even though I have love ones :
1) Still studying !
2) Still Early to do !
3) Marriage is a serious matter, once you have entered, there's no turning back
4) People will talk BAD mouth about you, your bride, and your family !

elaborations :
1) Menjejaskan fokus pelajaran
2) Perlu banyakkan persediaan dari segi mental, fizikal, rohani dan KEWANGAN
3) Perkahwinan bukanlah satu permainan
4) Orang akan salah anggap kenapa kamu kahwin awal ~ like : dah terlanjur laaa,, etc .. etc ~





Okeee ! Sebaiknya, bertahanlaa selagi boleh bertahan kalau still COUPLE without trouble (dosa)... Tapi, kalau COUPLE, diri xtenteram, xtahan*hahahah*, maka... ajaklaaa sang pasangan utk membina rumahtangga.... tapi kalau dia tolak... bha BREAK JAK LAAA ! T^T




#Just saying...? meh ~ -.-;

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